Mechanical Problems

Quite often, sexual difficulties arise out of nothing more than a problem associated with the physical attributes and quirks of anatomy, and these can be quickly and easily resolved, as a rule. In these situations, it might very well be the case that no outside help is required, just some basic understanding of how things work. We will examine some examples, with suggested remedies, where relevant.

Female: Cannot achieve orgasm during intercourse though can via masturbation or oral sex.
Male: Ejaculation during intercourse is uncomfortable in some way or difficult to achieve.
Differing levels of drive: One wants to do it far more than the other
Penetration is physically impossible: When it’s not Vaginismus (see Female Problems)
Something’s wrong with my Parts!: Almost always, this fear is unfounded
Communication: This can present the greatest problem of all
Bus stop syndrome: This is one of the biggest block to communication
The importance of affection: What someone feels is not necessarily what their partner means…
Long term plans: Repairing a broken relationship
I’m too old for that sort of thing… : Just how old is ‘too old’?
Sexual Depression: You might not even realise that it is sexual.
Mechanical answers Some more ‘direct response’ solutions to difficulties.